The State of Commitment
Commitment by definition is a promise, a pledge, a vow or
obligation. It is our word, a binder; it
is our guarantee. However, I have found
that in many cases these are just mere words; words that people use to impress
others, but have no real meaning for their own lives. Jesus spoke of such people when he quoted
Isaiah, saying: ‘This
people honors Me with their lips, But their heart is far from Me.
I have found lately that most people don’t want to commit to
anything, although they will tell you that they are committed. Everyone seems to want a way out just incase
things don’t work out as planned.
True commitment seems to be very scarce, even in the church.
In our Love Story series a few weeks ago we talked about
this and found that it is true in marriages, it is true on the job, and it is
true in our churches.
In marriage
people sign prenuptial agreements in order to protect their interest should
something go wrong in the relationship.
When it comes to the job, many people will say whatever it takes in
order to land the job—“I will travel…I will work overtime…I’m hard-working and
dedicated, etc.” But when the new wears
off of the new job and the boss needs someone to stay late, the employee gets irate
when asked to stay.
People join churches
and affirm their belief in the ministries of the church; they pledge their
allegiance to the church and staff—only until a decision comes down that they
do not like and then commitment goes right out the window and they excuse it as
if it never existed.
Now I’m not
talking about a doctrinal issue or something morally right or wrong, but I
speak of preferences, ideas, means and methods. It is
amazing, the fickleness of people who model their lack of commitment and
immaturity to their friends and children, and in the same breath act as though they speak for God.
Possessing this attitude of non-commitment people decide to
do their own thing as if they don’t need Jesus or the church that they
committed themselves to; then something tragic happens and they wonder: “Where
is my church?” “Where are my pastors and
staff?” Why hasn’t my church checked on
me. They go about in disbelief without regard for the fact that they've not been in church in months and months. Then they begin to form a negative attitude about their church, and everything goes down hill from there.
So how do we fix this?
- Keep your commitments. If you have disagreements, talk about it and work it out, whether on your job, in your church, or in your marriage. Remember, your commitment is your word.
- Pray about it and be open and honest with yourself, your leadership/boss/spouse about the situation.
- Express your prayer needs and concerns to your spouse, the church, and to your Life Group.
- Call for the Elders (Staff and Life Group Leaders) of the church to pray when you are sick.
I write this in hopes that we will take a look at our level of commitment and see if we are measuring up to the definition. How are you doing with commitment?
Finally, I want to thank the scores of people that are committed and faithful members/attenders of the Harbor, as well as other great churches in our area. I assure you that every pastor here is looking for committed men and women that say what they mean, and mean what they say.
Thank You for Your Commitment!!!